What should I do - my husband wants a baby but I don't

In this piece in the Observer Magazine, Mariella gives advice to a woman whose husband desparately wants a baby but she doesn't want to have a baby but is willing to adopt. The woman seeking advice expresses many worries that I hear from women who come to me who don't want kids or don''t feel a biological urge to have a baby but who are in a relationship with someone who does.