One to One Coaching

I offer free 30 minute telephone/Skype consultations for people wanting to find out more about coaching on the 'baby decision'. Email me at mailto:beth@ticktockcoaching.co.uk and assistant Laura will respond and arrange an appointment with you. Visit http://www.ticktockcoaching.co.uk/ for more information about my coaching services.

Monday, 20 June 2011

Will I regret not havng children?

Many of my coaching clients come to me concerned whether they will regret their decision not to have children?

I found this excellent article in the New York Times on regret and decision making. The outcome seems to be that people who deal best with decision making are those that can see the decisions they make within context and can see the complexity of those decisions. People that dwell on the lives they could have lead tend not to deal with regret so well.

My belief around regret is that when we make decisions as best as we can at the time, with the most positive belief AND with a feeling that we are choosing whatever choice we are making (as opposed to being the passive victim of a situation) we are much less likely to feel regret.

Monday, 6 June 2011

This question to the Guardian's advice column on Saturday sounds very typical of the women who approach me!

I liked the response she was given - it can be very useful indeed to talk to someone outside your friends and family who can help you get a perspective on the decision whether to have children (and when to have children)