tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130952057525576311.post4013453512123219912..comments2023-07-08T07:59:38.330+01:00Comments on Have children or not - Coaching on the Baby Decision: Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17162958646582442895noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130952057525576311.post-89407031691758673362013-05-08T13:47:26.085+01:002013-05-08T13:47:26.085+01:00Right now, that is the main reason I am considerin...Right now, that is the main reason I am considering not having a child. We have $100,000 in debt, I make 37k a year and my husband makes about 48k. We scrimp and save and want to pay off our debt in 10 years, which would mean I would be 38 and he would be 41. I don't want to wait till I am that old to have kids so it seems to be in our best interest to just not have them at all. I can't stay home from work and neither can my husband, child care is not cheap and neither is a child. <br /><br />People don't seem to understand our decision right now, but I hope in time they will see that this is the right thing for us. I'm glad I found this blog.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475894996684337257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130952057525576311.post-57077305955630944622013-05-08T13:47:05.555+01:002013-05-08T13:47:05.555+01:00Right now, that is the main reason I am considerin...Right now, that is the main reason I am considering not having a child. We have $100,000 in debt, I make 37k a year and my husband makes about 48k. We scrimp and save and want to pay off our debt in 10 years, which would mean I would be 38 and he would be 41. I don't want to wait till I am that old to have kids so it seems to be in our best interest to just not have them at all. I can't stay home from work and neither can my husband, child care is not cheap and neither is a child. <br /><br />People don't seem to understand our decision right now, but I hope in time they will see that this is the right thing for us. I'm glad I found this blog.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475894996684337257noreply@blogger.com