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Friday, 15 July 2016
My Week: Interview on BBC Radio & Jennifer Aniston hits back
This week Jennifer Aniston also spoke out about speculation that she may be pregnant in this article for the Huffington Post For the Record This is a particularly brilliant quote:
'Here’s where I come out on this topic: we are complete with or without a mate, with or without a child. We get to decide for ourselves what is beautiful when it comes to our bodies. That decision is ours and ours alone. Let’s make that decision for ourselves and for the young women in this world who look to us as examples. Let’s make that decision consciously, outside of the tabloid noise. We don’t need to be married or mothers to be complete. We get to determine our own “happily ever after” for ourselves.'
On Sunday, I was reminded of the power of determining our own happily ever after. I had brunch with a friend who is in her mid 50's. She never had children and it is a choice she is positive about. She also has good relationships with friends children. She is aware that not having children has allowed her freedom and ability to do more with her money than she would have if she had children. Unlike the woman interviewed on the radio show, she didn't feel that she was often judged for the choice she made - but she did feel that not having children meant she would face particular challenges as she got older. This is one of the structural issues that we have to address as a society. As I have mentioned elsewhere in this blog on a post called Aging Without Children, assumptions that older people who go into hospital or care will have adult children to support or advocate for them are prevalent and we need to look at new paradigms which address older people's care and support.