Must I choose between my partner and a baby?

Today the Guardian has published a very familiar dilemna to readers of this blog - someone who wants a baby and their partner doesn't!

http://lifeandhealth.guardian.co.uk/privatelives/story/0,,2266613,00.html

I thought all the replies were quite interesting - I do like what Linda Blair said here

'It is impossible for anyone to feel totally happy and confident about becoming a parent for the first time - it is after all, new and unknown territory.'