Australian woman struggling with the baby decision.

Just found this article by a woman in Australia who is trying to decide whether to have kids or not. Although the article To breed or not?  is slightly tongue in cheek, we can see the underlying dilemna - do I give up my freedom or not?  I often find that at the heart of the dilemna for many people is a polarity issue.  It can be between Freedom vs Commitment or Order vs Chaos or Known vs Unknown.  I wrote about this polarity last year in this blog post:  http://childrenornot.blogspot.co.uk/2015/02/worried-i-will-lose-freedom-if-i-have.html