In this article 5 signs that you shouldn't have kids the writer looks at reasons that you shouldn't have children. Yet, I think that it can make the decision more difficult if we frame it in a negative context.
Of course, I think we have to acknowledge and put our negative fears on the table - without that, they just keep going round and round and round. Once we do that, I think it's important to be able to put our fears and anxieties to one side. I'll be exploring this is a later blog.
But meanwhile, I think it's great to read a perspective from someone who has made this choice!